i think i am ready....

............to date a dude raised by two dudes. b/c original said dude would be all sorts of awesome. and i wouldn't have to have another relationship where i have to educate my partner on not being afraid of gay people (and black people, and...do i need to keep going?) b/c said dude would likely know how to be a decent human being. ("oh my god melanie, you're so naive" <---- not my words)

(is there an option for that preference on match.com? b/c there should be.)

Skinny Love

I told you to be patient
I told you to be fine
I told you to be balanced
I told you to be kind

Now all your love is wasted?
Then who the hell was I?
Now I'm breaking at the britches
And at the end of all your lines (lies).


Bon Iver

what up grace (yeah your name doesn't work for me at all)

i am like simultaneously obsessed slash hating this fucking TWENTY SIX year old who is really hot and really funny and more accomplished by 26 than I will ever be in my life. okay. ima stop being a hater. okay. enjoy.

http://gracehelbig.tumblr.com/

hazy.

Once upon a time, someone I thought I loved broke my heart. 
Not even a clean break, no line down the middle, no two halves easily glued back whole, 
but shattered in a million separate pieces. 
Once, I discovered that the same mouth can kiss you, tell you it loves you, and lie to you all at the same time. 
I learned that sometimes you can't know a person, 
even after years and years, 
that sometimes people are actors because they understand that better than they understand themselves

i heart r.g.